Owen's Drum Money

A few weeks ago Owen busted one of his drum heads. Now, this isn't too terribly expensive to replace, but Matt was determined that Owen learn to respect his instruments.

Enter: THE DRUM MONEY JAR

We've never liked the idea of paying our kids to do chores, or rewarding them for good behavior. Chores are part of being in a family, and being good is part of walking the Christian life. These are their own rewards.

However, this seemed like an opportunity to teach Owen not only to respect his instruments, but also paying to repair them doesn't magically happen. It has to be worked for and earned.

So, when we catch Owen being especially good, doing extra chores, or doing things without being asked, we add nickels to his jar.

Owen thrives on praise, so in the past an enthusiastic high-five was more than enough for him. I was shocked to see how excited he was about this jar. Matt had done the explaining of the process to Owen yesterday, so this morning Owen gave me all the details. He was surprised to find out that momma would give him nickels too! He eagerly asked if he could do anything to earn nickels this morning. My boy set the table, vacuumed (including edging), and has been an extremely helpful big brother. Near saint-hood today.

Eden too wanted a coin jar. I haven't yet figured out what she's earning money for, but she joyfully helped me with laundry to earn her pennies.