Thursday, September 10, 2009

Eden

Eden told me this morning "Watree ee whet." Translation: Water is wet. She's got a bright future, this pretty girl.
It's hard to believe she's going to be two years old in just a couple months. Eden is so unique, so happy--all the time. She draws attention--in a good way--EVERYWHERE we go.
For instance, today at Panera (she tagged along when I met with a new doula client) she wooed a shop owner as we walked down the sidewalk. The shop owner commented, as all who meet Eden do, on how happy Eden seems. I smiled, and replied with my usual response: Yes, all the time. Her favorite word: "happy." (Eden obliged my comments with saying "happy, happy, happy" as she crawled into her carseat.)

Have I told you the story of Eden's name? We struggled for the entire pregnancy, and even through labor and birth to choose a name. Throughout my pregnancy we prayed. Each night that I prayed I dreamed that I had a little girl, with dark hair, blue eyes, and her name was Eden Mara. I dreamed this over and over. At the time, neither Matt or I really liked the name Eden. I told a close friend, who immediately leaned over to my belly and said "Hello Eden Mara." I laughed it off. Sure enough, the big day came, and out came a dark haired, blue eyed baby girl. I looked at Matt and said "Oh no." I looked at our baby girl, and said "Are you Eden Mara?" The biggest smile you've ever seen stretched across her tiny lips. No crying, just smiling. The room was filled with ahhhs and gasps--many claiming they had never seen a newborn smile. When we came home I looked up the meaning of the name Eden. "Delight" No name could quite encompass her more. She is our delight. Our precious, delight from God.

I think I could write books about my little delight, but she's waking--calmly asking for water (you know, it's wet).

Wednesday, August 26, 2009

Time Flies...or is it Flys?

It's been nearly a month since I posted. Whoa! Where did the month go? I remember thinking at the beginning of summer--when we thought Matt wouldn't be teaching much this summer, how peaceful our summer would be--HA!

First of all--this hasn't been your typical summer "weather-wise" in Colorado. In the six short years we've lived here, I've never seen this much rain. Or, for that matter, such cool temperatures--IN AUGUST! I'm definitely not complaining, it's been a joy to be able to spend time outdoors without melting. It's not like the heat and humidity of Oklahoma, but the intensity of the sun (my husband says it's because of the altitude) is enough to wear you out pretty quick.

I fear Murphy was a mistake, and seconds later I love him. Owen has informed me that "he wuvs him," and that "we need two Murphy's, mom." Argh. What was I thinking? It truly is like having another kid, but smellier. The kids adore him though, and they've grown so much in the past four weeks of Murphy joining our family. Owen's language skills are flourishing, Eden LOVES to "play" with Murphy--which, consists of putting the dog in a headlock, wrestling him to the ground, and jumping on top of him. Somehow Murphy manages to wriggle lose, but Eden hunts him down again. It's pretty hilarious.

Owen starts preschool next week. What?! You thought we were homeschooling. Yep, we're doing that too. Huh?! Preschool is 2 days a week for just a couple hours. We've noticed Owen struggling with respecting authority outside of Mom & Dad, and he's overly dependent on us for social interaction. So, we're scooting him a bit out of the nest. Giving him a bit of room to grow. We might have to pull him out, if he starts getting sick too often, but we're praying for protection and that this is a blessing to his development.

Eden, oh, Eden. Where do I begin, little girl? She is quite the chatter box, saying a new word or sentence--what feels like--every day. She keeps me guessing too. One minute she's the star of her own show, the next--shy as can be. She'll want to kiss and hug Owen, and seconds later deck him for no apparent reason. I've always said--Eden is scrappy, and she's holding me to it. She'll be taking gymnastics and swim lessons this fall. Plus, we'll start some "learning time," while brother is at school.

We're praying for Matt to find a better job situation. We had hoped for many students this fall, so that he could cut back at Starbucks. Unfortunately, we lost 8. We've gained a couple since then, so hopefully it will steadily climb back. Truly, though, Matt needs a job that provides health insurance. So, a career outside of teaching is still needed. We just hired my company, The Tenfold Collective, to re-brand Matt's business. We've renamed the company to Forty Foot Music. (We're on facebook, and a website is in process.) He's building amps, selling pedals and other gear, and trying to get more students.

I'm trying to keep the chaos to a minimum. SO thankful for my MIL today, who cleaned MY ENTIRE KITCHEN--bless her! When I left work, with a pile of "homework," knowing the dish demons that awaited me--I was quite down. Coming home to a clean house, kitchen, sleepy dog, and happy kids--WOWZER. Lots of babies coming this fall through February. I'm a back-up doula for most of those, so hopefully it won't be to insane. Matt's trying to take more of the responsibilities of the music school, so that I can focus once again on being the home manager. Something I must do right now--balance the check book. Hope this suffices as a sufficient update. ;)

Wednesday, July 29, 2009

AAAAAAAACCCCCKKKK***tearing hair out***

What a difficult parenting season this has been! I'm going nuts!

Just in the last week Owen has poured an entire bottle of shampoo on his sister's head, thrown the puppy by the collar, colored in reading books, and poured out a full bottle of expensive hand soap--this is all in addition to his "normal" misbehavior.

Eden is no saint either--she took ALL of the wet wipes out of the container, assisted her brother in the coloring of books, colored on the entryway floor and wall....

Seriously, I haven't been this angry in a long time. I feel like I'm yelling A LOT. It doesn't help that I'm getting very little sleep, and have ZERO energy. My chest, heart, and lungs seem tight and sore.

Both kids are currently taking a "time out" in their beds, so that I can cool it.

I want to come home, and have 5 seconds without crying kids to at least set down my things and take off my shoes. Please? Can we just get through lunch without smearing our food through our hair, or getting covered with peanut butter? Seriously, am I asking too much? I'm so tired of being tired. I'm in desperate need to simplify life, and get some SLEEP!

Thursday, July 23, 2009

Boys and Girls

The difference between my two kids:
When Owen was 20 months, I would tell him to go get a diaper. He would scamper off, get a bit distracted if a train was anywhere nearby, get the diaper, scamper back, chuck it at my head, and then laugh mercilessly.

When I ask Eden to get a diaper, she says something very serious in her own language (please imagine this--she talks with her hands [where does she get that?], and it seems as if she's saying "Are you serious?! A diaper? I am way too big for a diaper. That is totally NOT cool, mom."), but then scampers off. She returns with a diaper, the wipes, and a changing pad--all the while singing a song--usually about being wet, wet wet. She then proceeds to give me instructions (in her sing-song voice) while I change her, "buh-et, wah-et, momma."

Owen at 20 months (December 2006)

Eden 20 months (July 2009)

Tuesday, July 21, 2009

Family Pics July 2009

















Photo Credit: Baily Hollen

Sunday, July 19, 2009

Yet Another Photo-Catch up

I just found the cord to my camera that connects to the computer and enables me to download pictures. So, here's another photo catch-up from May through mid-July.

Eden taking a bath after eating black beans. I have hilarious video from this bath time.

Owen being a boy. (If you can't tell, he's hooked a line of carabiners to the grill, and is attempting to haul it across the back deck. No, I don't know why--beyond the fact that he is a boy. These are the bizarre things they do.)

One of only two photos we took while camping before Eden's little "adventure."

The kiddos, and Owen's buddy Julian at The Elders concert at the Foote Lagoon.

Saturday morning breakfast picnic and cartoons. I did this all the time as a kid--good memories.

Wednesday, July 8, 2009

WANTED

A new digital camera that takes awesome, focused pictures of my kiddos despite how quickly they move. Bonus points for being shock and water proof (and idiot proof).

Additionally, camera needs to have long-lasting batteries, because it must be on and ready at short notice to capture the ever-fleeting, sweet moments of my children's lives.

Pictures should upload automatically, sort, edit, and post to my blog and facebook page--just awaiting my fantastic commentary.

Please send application and references. Thank you.